Little Jungsters

This is probably the most talked about during the highs and lows of raising Sebastian.  Do we want a second baby, or are we complete?  From my perspective I am really perplexed.  I bounce back in forth all the time; usually in those highs and lows of parenting I find myself switching sides of the argument. I've imagined myself with two children for a large part of my life, and I'm not sure if that really carries a lot of weight in this decision or if it just adds more {self} pressure.   As far as Sebastian is concerned, I'd absolutely love for him to have siblings.  I think it's a different way of life, a different childhood when you can share it with another sibling.  Of course they will argue like cats and dogs at times, but in the end they will always have each other in their own personal highs and lows of life.  I want that for Sebastian.  Without a doubt, I want Sebastian to have a brother or sister.   Then, I t...

What to pack in your hospital bag can be quite overwhelming.  I remember searching a number of websites for inspiration, but in all honestly your instinct isn't far off.  Pack what you think you'll need, sure... the rest will be provided. So, what did I pack?   While some of the items I packed were truly packed with selfish intention (read: photo props) the remainder of the items I tried to stick to necessities.   I do recommend touring your hospital or birthing facility prior to your main event, as they will inform you of the items they will provide.  My theory on this was, "I'm going  to reach my deductible anyway- why not utilize the hospital for all the necessities they would provide for "free" and save my stuff for when we return home."  I used the hospital bill to bank roll small purchases (like a hand pump) or items I was considering, but wasn't sure I would need depending on my labor and my child's preferences. This wo...